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We do not have to hold the same strengths. We do not have to face the same struggles. We can be different and still be equal.

This is something that feminists just cannot wrap around their deluded minds.

But we have to be equal fist and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal
When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won thats when you know it’s not equal
When basic reproductive rights are denied to half of a population and we still make it sound like its necessary to do so that’s when you know it’s not equal at all
When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal
Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies

  • “and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal”

 wow. are you seriously going to use this idiotic argument? wage gap is not a “we want women to be oppressed, let’s pay them less cause we just hate woman” issue. it has nothing to do with gender at all. if you ignorant fucks can’t understand this, i feel immensely sorry for you. if women earn less than men, why don’t we just higher them for everything? we would be saving money that way, right? read this non fucking biased document and educate yourself you ignorant piece of bullshit. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf

  • “When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won that’s when you know it’s not equal”             

 if i ever heard this come out of your filthy mouth irl, i would have backhanded you so fucking hard your teeth would scatter the wall. how dare you insult me and my gender that way. TAUGHT TO GIVE SEX TO MEN! fuck you and your beliefs. i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over. fuck you. and thought to become objects? wtf does that even mean?? i am only raised to become an object in men’s eyes and i have no free will? TAKE YOUR SEXIST ASS OUT OF THIS LIFE, YOU DISGUSTING FUCK! i am anti feminist because i know that the law says i am  not oppressed. i am anti feminist because the only ones spilling sexist bullshit are feminists like you. FUCK YOU, YOU SEXIST CUNT. STOP FUCKING TELLING ME I AM OPPRESSED! and never in my life have i met a man that feels he is entitled to sex. in fact, every guy i’ve known are so scared to talk to girls in fear of being called a creep, pervert, or “nice guy” so fuck the fuck off. no one is taughtt to be anything in this country. we have free will. it is free. so wtf are you talking about, dumb fuck?

  • “When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal”

i don’t even know where you are going with this nonsense but, rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE! STOP MAKING IT ABOUT JUST THE POOR WOMEN. Since Feminism is all about playing the persecuted, weak, helpless victim, feminists have promoted the fantasy that we live a culture that “teaches men to rape”. But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society. Feminists confuse dominance and submission themes as rape. Only rape is rape. Posing in a picture for perfume is not rape.

  • “Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies”

Okay, srsly?           

Feminism makes up things, or forces women into a victim role, needing to be helped and pushed up rather than earning it.

Feminism tells me I’m weak and I need handouts because of my gender. Feminism tells me I can’t stand up and empower myself because I need help with every little thing. Feminism tells me men are all sexist and rapists and I should be scared just walking outside cause that’s pretty much what you told me. Feminism tells me I can’t be sexist or horrible to men because previously women were oppressed. Feminism tells me that’s equality.

Feminism tells men they need to be passive and let women lead, that they shouldn’t have ambition. Feminism tells men that they’re stupid and are sexist and horrible and rapists because they don’t support the movement that supports the removal of their rights. Feminism tells men they need to apologize because of their gender, something they can’t change. Feminism tells men that they didn’t work to get into high positions in society, that they were just handed them. Feminism tells men they can’t be raped, abused or hurt because they’re men. Feminism tells men they’re little more than dildos that help us reproduce. Feminism tells men this is equality.

                   and these are just some of the minor reasons why i am very against it. I ACTUALLY WANT EQUALITY AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE THE SAME PROBLEMS TO ACHIEVE THAT!


While your message at first is clear and cool, your jab at feminism is clearly misguided. If you seriously think its just ‘buh womenz bringing men down and wanting to rule the world!” then you’re reeeeallllyyyy misinformed and should probably get off tumblr or educate yourself with better sources.

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 

>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.

>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.

>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY. 

Your view of this isn’t uncommon, and it’s quite sad it exists. Though it comes from somewhere and it’s sad that people claiming to be part of feminism is making you believe it. But just like those feminists who view the entirety of man as awful, potential rapists, your view of them as rabid, man hating, villains. 

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything?


My comment: I didn’t say that to “solve anything” (legally there isn’t anything to solve). i said that to exemplify how stupid you people are for believing in a gender-based wage-gap. Let me dumb it down for you. What i was saying is that if there was a gender-based wage gap (which there isn’t) companies/business owners would hire women more for everything because they would have to pay women less for the work they do. BUT, because there ISN’T a gender-based wage gap (or law that states that women will get paid less than men) THAT SCENARIO DOESN’T HAPPEN. Do you understand? Since there is NO GENDER-BASED WAGE GAP, a scenario such as “women being hired more because business owners and companies would  legally get to pay them less” DOES NOT HAPPEN.

The wage gap is a result of  women’s choices:

  • Women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment.

  • Men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.

  • Women more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care

  • Men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress.

  • Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations.

  • Men work more hours(9%) than women

  • Women spending fewer hours than men at work doing the same jobs, such as taking more sick and vacation time, working less overtime and fewer nights, weekends, and holidays.

  • Read the fucking link


Instead of pursuing a degree in Gender/Women’s studies maybe you should help close the wage gap by pursuing a degree in Computer science, Construction, Petroleum Engineering and other stressful, dirty and dangerous male dominated job.



>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.


My comment: Exactly how is feminism going to help a girl who was pressured into having sex? Seriously, tell me how feminism is going to give her personality a 180, and turn her from a doormat into a person who doesn’t give into pressure. I have noticed all those things and guess what! I’VE NOTICED IT HAPPENS TO BOTH FUCKING GENDERS! ever heard “all guys want is sex” , “dude are you still a virgin? What a loser”. Have you ever seen the movies, commercials, music  videos where a guy is just standing there with his shirt off or half naked while a girl uses and abuses him (i.e drugs, whips, standing on him, hitting him, leashes, calling him a dog) to “make things sexy” (simple examples would be: beyonce, rihanna, marina and the diamonds)

Both genders have attacks against our desires, men aren’t portrayed as being with larger women, or very unattractive women. Men are portrayed as being big, tall, and/or muscled, with hot super model babes on their arm. That forces a standard that they feel they have to live up to. Women are portrayed as willing to be with a man because of a certain trait and liking someone’s looks is usually frowned upon, unless, of course she fixes the man and he gets smarter, stronger, kinder, whatever.


BOTH GENDERS FACE THESE ISSUES! (but feminists only care about the females and pin the problem on males-as you have just done.)



>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.


  • My commentary: I am not, and never did deny that people get raped, wtf? what i said: “rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE!” The problem is that feminists (like you, as you have just done this) are trying to pin rape on the male gender and trying to minimize/erase male victims and women perpetrators. An example of how you, a feminist, have just proven my point would be what you have just written: “And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists.” see what you’ve just done there? I applaud you for at least acknowledging that men get raped though. There is also something called innocent until PROVEN guilty. Look it up, it may answer your concerns as to why officers question victims of any crime. ^^



HERE’S SOME  FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW BOUT YOU EDUCATE YOURSELF A BIT MORE SWEETIE:   

You wanna talk about rape culture?


Rape culture is women getting away with rape because “the man probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women getting away with child molestation because “the boy probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women believing that women don’t rape.


Rape culture is women believing that women can’t rape.


Rape culture is a woman raping a man and then demanding that he pay child support for the child he did not consent to father.


Rape culture is the lack of “rape by envelopment,” being classified by national rape laws.


Rape culture is believing that all men are one event away from being rapists.


Rape culture is not wanting people to be prepared to defend themselves in the instance of an attack.


If you believe otherwise, you are an idiot and, more than likely, a bigot. Men do not rape, rapists rape, because they are mentally disturbed individuals who do not care about the laws that we have in place against rape. You want to know why I don’t agree with Feminism? Because Feminism does not believe in equal consequences for equal crimes. “ -oldmancaleb



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CDC - National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010

  • total amount of rapists including made to penetrate= 2,537,000

  • total amount of female rapists under these terms=1,003,464

  • total percentage of female rapists=39.55%  [which fits right into the roughly 40% number on the poster]

  • total amount of victims of rape including made to penetrate=2,537,000

  • total amount of male victims=1,267,000

  • total percentage of male victims of rape=49.94%  [0.6% less than a full 50%, however, those numbers of 1,267,000 for women and 1,267,000 for men are weighted both at 1.1%, so that’s where a nice round 50% comes from] - cobblepot

RAPE ISN’T A GENDER ISSUE! IT’S NOT A WOMEN’S ISSUE!!! NOT ONLY MEN RAPE! RAPISTS RAPE! YOU DO NOT “TEACH MEN HOW TO NOT FUCKING RAPE!!” YOU CAN NOT TEACH A MURDERER HOW TO NOT FUCKING MURDER! ANY GENDER CAN RAPE, ONLY RAPISTS RAPE, RAPISTS CAN COME IN ANY GENDER, SHAPE AND FUCKING SIZE! STOP! ~okay hun ^^


>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY


  • My Commentary: That is the message i get from every feminist post I’ve seen and even the bull shit that guy wrote on my post. Masculinity is just as harmful as femininity. If you want to erase masculinity, you better be working on erasing femininity. both aspects have their good and bad point. That is yet another thing you feminists do not seem to understand. Men and women are portrayed in certain ways (good and bad), both genders face problems socially, both genders have their privileges. Every feminist post i see talks about how “i’m oppressed” as though they want me to seek oppression. Feminists baby women, an example would be in the case of drunken consent or, in feminists eyes, “drunken rape”:

  • Feminists label women as weak, stupid imbeciles who can’t even do what is expected of a child. Here I talk about the instance on drunken “rape”. it is absolutely the most deeming argument that i have ever seen and makes me feel ashamed. I mean women actually hold up signs and scream that “I’m aren’t responsible for what they do or what happens to them while I’m are drunk.” “I don’t have to protect themselves from psychos trying to rape me…tell psychos not to rape.” Why the hell do you think we tell children not to talk to strangers and to look both ways before crossing the streets. Why don’t we just tell peodophiles not to kidnap children and tell drivers not to run them over. Children are expected more of than women are in feminists eyes. that is so sick and stupid. Also why is it that a woman who is drunk of her rocker and has sex with someone she normally wouldn’t have sex with can state rape and land his sorry ass in prison, but a man who is drunk off his rocker and does the same thing with a woman, as to suck it up and label it as “a bad night” or something. that’s really freaking stupid. in the eyes of feminists, a woman who is intoxicated and  does something she normally wouldn’t do when sober is the victim…but when a man is intoxicated and does something he normally wouldn’t do it’s still his fault, his actions, a responsibility he has to own up to? what!? how is that freaking fair!? that is not only unjust, but also deeming to women. They are saying while I’m drunk i am not capable of being responsible for me…but while a man is drunk he is capable for being responsible for him (and in some instances me.)


Literally, feminists care more about a piece of dog shit on the side of the road than they care about men. A few examples would be:

THAT IS NOT FUCKING EQUALITY! You seem to be the misguided one here. look up the actions of your own movement, CALL THEM OUT AND FIGHT AGAINST THEIR UNJUST AND SEXIST WAYS! That is what i do. so STFU. ~<3 



I’ve already reblogged this but it got better. 

This is why I am Anti-Feminist.

Feminism is inherently evil and promotes a message of hate. 

I think it’s time we start saying this more openly. 

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